AITA for calling my sister sick and disgusting for taking a eulogy I wrote for our grandpa as her own

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In a recent discussion about a funeral eulogy, it was highlighted that a speaker’s approach to delivering the tribute raised significant concerns among attendees. The core issue was the speaker’s choice to present the eulogy as though it were their own work, including personal anecdotes that were originally written by another individual. This has been deemed particularly inappropriate given the solemnity of the occasion.

Many felt that the speaker should have clearly acknowledged that the eulogy was crafted by someone else, specifically a family member who was unable to deliver it personally. Proper etiquette for such events typically involves giving credit where it’s due and maintaining the focus on honoring the deceased rather than on the speaker themselves.

The general consensus is that the eulogy should have been presented with proper attribution to the original author, which would have been a more respectful and gracious approach. This situation underscores the importance of sensitivity and respect in handling personal tributes, especially in the context of a funeral where emotions are particularly raw.

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