'AITA for refusing to leave my friend's flat even though it disrespected his girlfriend's boundaries?'

After graduating from university, a 24-year-old woman named Callum moved abroad with her boyfriend. During a recent visit to her old university town, she planned to stay at her friend Callum’s flat overnight. Callum, who was doing his PhD and living in shared accommodation, offered her a spot on a blow-up mattress. Upon arrival, she met Callum’s girlfriend Hannah for the first time, and everything seemed cordial initially.

Later that evening, as the group wound down, Hannah approached the visitor and expressed discomfort at having another woman stay overnight in Callum’s room. She requested that Callum’s friend find alternate accommodation, citing boundaries and her discomfort with the arrangement. Feeling caught off guard and with no other options readily available, the visitor declined to leave, asserting that the plans had been made in advance and she had nowhere else to stay.

The next morning, after spending the night on the blow-up mattress, the visitor left early for work. Shortly afterward, Callum contacted her, informing her that Hannah had texted him claiming the visitor had disrespected her boundaries and insisting that he cut off ties with her. Concerned about potentially losing a close friend, the visitor debated whether an apology was necessary.

Following advice from others, she spoke with Callum, recounting the events honestly. To her surprise, Callum revealed that he had informed Hannah about the visitor’s stay beforehand, and Hannah had initially agreed to it. This revelation cast doubt on Hannah’s motives and accusations. Further insights from mutual acquaintances painted a picture of Hannah as manipulative, having previously fabricated reasons to isolate Callum from other female friends.

Confronted with the truth, Callum confronted Hannah, who confessed to her manipulative behavior, admitting she had lied to prevent Callum from forming close relationships with other women. This realization led to their breakup, with Callum apologizing to the visitor and his other female friends for Hannah’s actions.

In conclusion, what initially seemed like a clash over boundaries evolved into a scenario of manipulation and deceit. The visitor maintained her integrity by standing firm on previously agreed-upon plans, ultimately revealing the truth behind Hannah’s attempts to control Callum’s relationships. With Hannah out of the picture, Callum and the visitor were able to mend their friendship, strengthened by the resolution of the misunderstanding.

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