AITA for telling my fiance that he needs to pick a new best man?
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A woman on the AITA subreddit expressed her concerns about her fiance, Kevin, who has chosen Amy as his best man for their wedding. Since Kevin’s mother kicked him out at age 17, Amy, who has been transitioning for a year or less, has been close to him. Kevin initially agreed to Amy’s decision, but when Amy came out, he threatened to cancel the wedding if she couldn’t be part of the party.
The woman’s fiance, Kevin, has been criticized for his decision, with some arguing that it is transphobic and that the family is the problem. Others believe that the woman should support her fiance’s decision and not hold back with her beliefs. Others argue that the woman should prioritize her family’s feelings over her husband’s, and that the couple should find a conservative husband who cares about their friends.
The woman’s husband’s decision to exclude Amy from the wedding is seen as a way to placate his conservative family and ensure that the couple’s relationship remains strong. The woman questions how this would work for them, as they have transcended friendship and considered each other family.
This was about as unanimous as you get on here. OP and Kevin have some big talks ahead of them.
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