You’re definitely not the asshole (NTA) in this situation. Despite having set boundaries with your mother-in-law (MIL) regarding sensitive topics like having children, she continuously crossed those lines. The remarks she made at the family gathering were not only hurtful but also disrespectful to you and your husband.
Your reaction to her comments was firm but justified. You didn’t respond with anger or rudeness, but rather with a clear assertion of your boundaries. It’s understandable that emotions were running high, especially given the personal nature of her comments.
Your husband’s initial support further validates that your response was appropriate. However, it’s natural for him to feel conflicted after receiving pushback from other family members, particularly his father and some siblings. Despite their opinions, your well-being and comfort in your own home should take precedence.
Your MIL’s behavior, fueled by alcohol or not, warranted consequences, and your decision to ask her to leave was a reasonable response to protect your emotional well-being and uphold the boundaries you’ve established. It’s essential for your husband and you to have an open and honest conversation about how to navigate future interactions with his family while maintaining your boundaries and emotional safety.
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