AITA for not changing my tradition day and making uncomfortable

In a recent family dispute, a significant issue arose involving long-held family traditions. The conflict centers on a cherished dish that has been a part of family gatherings for a decade. The tradition, observed every first Saturday of the month, was disrupted when a daughter-in-law decided to host a similar event on the day immediately following, seemingly to compete with the established tradition.

The daughter-in-law’s choice of dates was perceived as passive-aggressive, with some family members feeling it was an attempt to overshadow or upstage the original tradition. This situation was exacerbated by the son, who, according to some opinions, failed to stand up for his mother and allowed his wife’s actions to disrupt the established family practice. The resulting tension has led to calls for the son to apologize and for a reconsideration of the daughter-in-law’s place in the family, given the perceived disrespect toward longstanding traditions.

Many believe that the daughter-in-law’s decision was a deliberate move to challenge the family tradition and prove her own culinary skills. Critics argue that she could have chosen any other date, but instead opted to clash with the established tradition, which some see as an attempt to undermine the original family practices. This has led to a broader discussion about the importance of respecting family traditions and the impact of such conflicts on family relationships.