“AITA for not letting my sister see her kids?”
In a challenging family situation, a 28-year-old woman (referred to as the OP) has custody of her sister’s three children, aged 9, 4, and 2. The OP took over custody in 2018 after her sister left the children alone for two weeks to go on a drug bender. Since then, the children have adjusted well to their new lives, with the oldest, a 9-year-old boy, expressing strong feelings about not wanting to see his biological mother, while the younger two have no memories of her.
Recently, the OP’s sister was released from prison and is now seeking to reconnect with her children. She has requested a visit, asserting that her release from prison should enable her to regain custody. However, the OP has been advised by a therapist that it should be the 9-year-old’s decision whether or not to see his mother, as forcing him could have emotional repercussions.
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Despite professional advice, the OP faces pressure from her close family, who argue that she should facilitate a relationship between the children and their mother, believing it to be in the children’s best interest.
The OP is grappling with the tension between wanting to respect her nephew’s wishes and the family’s insistence on rekindling the children’s relationship with their biological mother. She is questioning whether she is being unreasonable or if she is in the right for prioritizing her nephew’s current emotional state and well-being.
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