New mom snaps at judgmental friend, 'when you have kids, name them whatever you want.' AITA?

“AITA for telling my friend that when she has kids, she can name them whatever she wants?”

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In a recent discussion, a user recounted an incident involving a friend who had been making hurtful comments about their newborn. This friend, who had been struggling with infertility, directed her frustration and jealousy towards the new parent, making inappropriate remarks about the baby and its name. Despite the personal challenges the friend was facing, the consensus among readers was clear: the new parent was not at fault for calling out this behavior.

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Many emphasized that personal struggles do not justify making derogatory comments about others’ children. The friend’s comments, which included speculative and cruel remarks about the baby’s future, were viewed as unacceptable regardless of her situation.

The support from the community reinforced the idea that everyone deserves to have their parenting journey respected and protected from unwarranted negativity.

The advice for handling such a situation was consistent across responses. The general recommendation was to distance oneself from individuals who cannot show support and empathy, even when facing their own hardships. Maintaining boundaries and ensuring that one’s parenting experience is not tainted by others’ unresolved issues were seen as crucial steps in moving forward.

Here’s what top commenters had to say about this one:

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