Hairstyle Mistakes That Make Women Look Much Older Than They Are
The Chelsea Hairdo
You may not know the name of this hairstyle simply by hearing it; however, you have probably seen a few people with it throughout the years. It consists of shaved back portions of the head with long bangs and sides. It is a pretty attention-grabbing hairstyle, no matter the age of the wearer, and that’s exactly what you should keep in mind if you’re considering getting this style. If you don’t want all eyes on you when you walk into a room, this is one to avoid.
Those of us looking for something low-maintenance should also avoid this look. Don’t be deceived by the shaved sides – it takes quite a lot of maintenance to keep up with this look.
“The Karen”
Everyone knows about the term “Karen.” However, did you know that there is a hairstyle associated with the memefied name? With the growing popularity of the term “Karen” and everything associated with it, some women have decided to ditch the look for something more rejuvenating that’s the same length all across rather than longer in the front and shorter in the back. Others have decided to stick to their beloved style and ignore the Karen associations.
At the end of the day, what matters most is how you feel when you look in the mirror, and nobody else is around.
The Top Knot
The top knot was many women’s go-to hairstyle for quite some time. It had a few years reigning as one of the trendier hairstyles, and it’s not hard to see why. However, now that it’s gone out of style, it might make those of us who choose to wear it look a bit older. Plus, like with other hairstyles that pull hair away from your face, it can leave you very exposed.
But it’s a matter of personal preference. If you feel confident and empowered showing off your forehead and other features, then this look might be the ideal go-to for you.
The Undershave
Although some women can absolutely rock the under-shaved look, it is not ideal for everyone. If you’re curious about this style, it’s good to consider the pros and cons before going for it. Keep in mind that it means exposing areas of your head or neck that you might be used to having completely covered, and consider whether that’s something you want before completely shaving it off.
Depending on what part you shave, this hairstyle could draw more attention to your jawline or neck. So keep those factors in mind when making your decision.
Keep Your Blow Drying Skills up to Par
One of the simplest things you can do to make yourself look like you are having a bad hair day is not to blow-dry it properly. Who would think that it could make that much of a difference? However, it is truly the make or break of a hairstyle. Frizzy and poofy hair is probably not the look that you are going for, so be careful when you are drying that it does not appear that way.
If you want to appear younger, it is important to have your hair looking well-maintained. A successful blow-dry is one of the best ways to go about doing that.
The Sleek and Elegant Ponytail
Many people love the look of a slick and sleek ponytail pulled up tight on the top of the head, without a single hair dangling out of place. While this might look elegant for some, it may add a few years to others (oftentimes unknowingly). It is difficult to hide the appearance of wrinkles and fine lines behind a sleek ponytail. A little bit of volume or letting down wisps of hair can make a huge difference.
There is no exact age when this hairstyle stops being flattering and should be avoided. It is very much a case-by-case basis based on your personal desires and what parts of your head you wish to accentuate.
Dark Roots
Now there is a difference between simply not maintaining your hair coloring job and intentionally making it so that you have dark roots and lighter hair. There was a time (thanks mainly to Shakira) that dark roots were all the rage, and everyone was rushing to grow out their freshly dyed hair to expose the darker roots. But if you’re trying to look younger, this style might not be the ideal choice.
Depending on your personal style and preferences, this look might just end up feeling like you don’t maintain your hair rather than the casual, edgy look you hoped for. But we guess the only way to know is to try it out, so if you’re curious, go for it and see how you feel!
Even Out Your Grey Hairs
This might be counter-intuitive, but evening out your grey hairs can actually give you a more youthful look. Just think about it this way: a full head of grey hair can look powerful and like you’re embracing and loving your age and the way your body is changing. However, an ill-maintained dye job with grey roots sticking out can look messy. And that’s why for some, going completely grey can be the best choice.
If you are transitioning to full gray, then we have no doubt you’ll love it. But if you’re trying to keep the appearance of colored hair, maintain your roots for a more youthful feel.
The Overly-Cropped Bob
Bob hairstyles, as has been established, can look quite flattering for some women and can keep them looking young and fashionable. However, depending on the length, you are in for some risky business. If you are considering a very short, edgy look to your bob and want to crop it a lot, especially in the back, be aware that it can potentially make you appear older than you may have desired.
Remember this one question: do you want to accentuate your neck? If the answer is yes, then the overly-cropped bob is for you. If the answer is no, you might want to avoid this one.
Spiking Short Hair
Short haircuts can be quite flattering for women as we age. Since our hair tends to get thinner, keeping styles short helps it look more voluminous while longer hair can contribute to the lack of volume. But the one thing that can take the volume away from shorter hair is spiking it. So, if you’re concerned about having a thick-hair look, then spiking might not be the way to go.
If you are looking for an edgy and trendy look, then by all means, go for it! However, think about whether you feel okay losing some volume.
A Very Short Pixie
The Pixie haircut is one of the most versatile and flattering hairstyles for women of all different ages and looks. However, if you are trying to appear younger, be mindful of the length that you cut your pixie. For some of us, the shorter we go, the more youthful we get. But for others of us, it can be the opposite. So it’s good to play around and find your ideal pixie cut length.
Does the shorter look accentuate all the right places or make you feel older? It’s all about personal style and preferences, and sometimes, the only way to find out is by trial and error (or speaking with your trusted hairstylist).
Bringing Out the Bouffant
Although it may be tempting to give the bouffant hairstyle a chance, if you are trying to appear young, it may not be the best choice for you. In certain circumstances, it can look very glamorous and beautiful. However, it is generally associated with the 1960s. So unless you want to be associated with being from the 1960s (which some of us certainly do), this may not be the best hairstyle choice for you.
The bouffant is also very damaging to the hair. In order to create this look, you need to do a lot of teasing to the hair and apply lots of hairspray. So if you do love this look, we recommend using it in moderation to keep your hair healthy.
Wave Away From Your Face
Did you know that the direction in which you create your waves with a curling iron can affect how old you appear? Probably not, since it is not the most commonly known fact. However, now that you are in on the secret, be sure to put it into practice! If you want to appear younger, stylists recommend styling your waves away from your face and not towards it.
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Making sure the waves are away from your face helps to soften your overall look and make you appear younger. Give it a try next time you pull out the curling iron and see what you think.
Keep the Braids Loose
Tight braids look very good on women and are a large part of certain hairstyles in many different cultures. However, if you are trying to appear younger than you are, there are a few things to keep in mind when braiding your hair. Braids that are braided tightly to the head tend to pull back the skin and really accentuate your face. So if that’s not something you want, then this might not be the ideal hairstyle.
But that doesn’t mean you have to ditch the braids altogether. Just find a braiding style that feels good to you!
Hair Do’s for a Youthful Look
- Go for Soft Layers: Soft, layered cuts can frame your face beautifully. They add movement and dimension, which can help you look more vibrant. A single blunt cut can sometimes feel heavy and dated, while layers can soften your features.
- Choose the Right Length: Mid-length hair is often seen as the most versatile and youthful. Long hair can be stunning, but it may also make you look older if it’s not styled well. Short hair can be chic, but make sure it suits your face shape!
- Incorporate Highlights: Adding subtle highlights can brighten your overall look and give your hair a youthful glow. Think about warm, sun-kissed tones that bring life to your hair. Just avoid overly stark contrasts; soft highlights are key.
- Keep It Shiny: Healthy, shiny hair is a major sign of youth. Regular conditioning treatments and good hair care can help maintain that shine. If your hair looks dull, it can age you, so consider investing in a good shine serum or treatment.
- Experiment with Texture: Soft waves or curls can add a playful touch to your look. They bring volume and a sense of fun, making you appear more youthful. Flat, straight hair can sometimes feel lifeless.
Hair Don’ts to Avoid Aging Yourself
- Steer Clear of Harsh Cuts: Sharp, angular cuts can create a more severe look that might age you. Instead, opt for softer lines that flatter your face shape.
- Avoid Extreme Colors: Going too dark or too light can be risky. Dark hair can create a stark contrast, emphasizing fine lines, while super light colors might wash you out. Stick to shades that complement your skin tone.
- Skip the One-Length Styles: A one-length hairstyle can look heavy and dated. It’s best to incorporate some movement and texture to keep things fresh and youthful.
- Don’t Forget About Maintenance: Neglected hair can definitely age you. Regular trims and touch-ups are essential to keep your hairstyle looking its best. Nobody wants split ends!
- Avoid Overly Tight Styles: Super tight ponytails or buns can pull at your skin and create the illusion of sagging. Instead, opt for looser styles that feel more relaxed and youthful.
