“WIBTA for telling my daughter the truth about her dad?”

It seems like you’re asking for advice on how to handle a delicate situation involving a child and her awareness of a difficult family issue. Based on the comments provided, here are some considerations:

1. MousingJoke’s Advice: Since the child is already aware of a change in her father’s behavior, it’s suggested to explain the situation carefully and truthfully, allowing her to process and move forward.
2. Historical-Goal-3786’s Suggestion: Consulting with a child therapist can provide professional guidance on how to discuss the situation in an age-appropriate and sensitive manner.
3. Mera1506’s Perspective: The child might already sense that something is wrong, and not knowing the truth could be as distressing as knowing it. It’s important to consider the child’s age and maturity when deciding how much information to share, and to choose words carefully to avoid causing additional harm.
4. Heathelee73’s Experience: Learning the truth about a difficult family situation can sometimes provide clarity and understanding. This user suggests providing an overview of the situation in a neutral, third-person perspective, which might help in conveying the facts without placing blame.

The overarching advice is to approach the conversation with care and to seek professional help if needed, ensuring that the child’s well-being is prioritized.

What do you think? WIBTA if she tells her daughter the truth? Or are some things better left unsaid? This is what top commenters had to say:

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