‘AITA for not paying for my mom’s surgery even though I have money for it?’
A strong opinion regarding a person who had their mother abandon them years ago came up in a recent discussion. The prevailing sentiment is that this individual is not obligated to offer any assistance to their estranged parent. Critics argue that the mother’s abandonment indicates a lack of genuine concern or compassion, rendering any claims of illness questionable. This perspective underscores the belief that the individual’s decision to withhold help is justified, given the circumstances of their past.
Another point of view highlights the importance of considering familial relationships in such situations. It was noted that understanding whether the mother’s sister, or another relative, might influence the decision. Regardless, there is general agreement that the mother’s recent approach and her lack of prior involvement were both characterized by an absence of humility. This suggests that the estranged parent’s attempt to seek aid was not appropriately handled, further justifying the individual’s response.
In summary, the debate reflects a broader discussion about personal responsibility, family obligations, and the sincerity of appeals for help. The controversy surrounding the mother’s alleged health issues and her past actions plays a central role in shaping opinions about the appropriate response to such requests for assistance.
Let’s find out.
pjfranri9 writes:
ihavesaidmypiece writes:
evilfinch writes:
ALL IN ALL!
The 35-year-old author lost her father when she was a young child, and her mother and brother raised her. Despite her parents’ financial struggles, the author accumulated money from her job and a small amount from her aunt, which helped her pay for college. After graduating in computer science, she worked in a well-known company and helped her uncle and aunt renovate their house.
A few years ago, the author received a better job offer and helped renovate their house. She now lives alone in a million-dollar apartment. Recently, her mother called her to reevaluate their relationship and discuss their lives. The mother, who had divorced John and lived on a pension from John, had serious heart problems. She asked if the author could pay for her expensive surgery, which the author refused. The mother yelled at the author, accusing her of being a terrible daughter and letting her die. The author’s aunt defended her decision, stating that she had enough money to pay for the surgery.
Well, looks like OP is NTA. Is the mom potentially faking this illness? And if YOU were in this situation, what would you do? Does the daughter owe her mom anything?
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