Declining Her Cousin’s Wedding Invitation After Bride’s Rude Comments on Lifestyle and Weight
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The author, a 28-year-old woman, was invited to her cousin’s wedding, which is a significant event in her family. However, she rejected the invitation due to her fiancé’s dislike for her. Amy, the author’s fiancé, made under-minded comments about her, including her being a single mom and her weight gain. This led to a fight between Jake and Amy, who wanted her to be a bridesmaid. The author’s sister was surprised to learn that Amy had asked her to be a bridesmaid, and her family was upset. The author decided not to attend the wedding, despite feeling left out. Amy reached out to the author about the decision, but she was angry and sent a text expressing her disapproval. The author was considering going to the beach with her son, but her family encouraged her to attend the wedding. The author is now considering a beach trip to distract herself, but her family insists she should attend. The author is questioning the author’s actions and the author’s feelings towards her family.
The author’s relationship with Jake is similar to a childhood friend or older brother, as they used to do everything together when they were younger. However, when Jake started seeing Amy, he became distant. Amy’s family has seen the messages Amy sends, and they want Amy to go away to keep peace. The author met Jake by accident at the grocery store and they chatted about their childhood memories.
Jake mentioned Amy’s wedding and asked if the author would be there. The author agreed, but he couldn’t look at her. He explained that Amy has been having similar experiences to many of Jake’s groomsmen, friends, and his own sister. They had a big argument, and Amy is now staying at a hotel to get away from Jake and his parents.
Jake apologized for his treatment of Amy and apologized to his friends and family. He promised to talk with Amy before preparing for the wedding and went their separate ways. In the last few days, other friends started messaging the author that it’s over for Amy and Jake. Jake went to talk with friends and family to apologize formally, but the author is surprised by his seriousness.
The author hopes Amy and Jake will feel better soon, and hopes that Amy realizes Jake’s feelings as well.
